There was a time in my life when I was in a constant state of search—a search that seemed never-ending, like I had lost something precious but couldn’t quite grasp what it was. This feeling was beyond words, an inexplicable yearning that consumed me. It was as if I was wandering through life, looking for something to fill a void, to satisfy a deep, unspoken need.
In my pursuit of love outside, I stumbled upon something far more profound—my own deep-rooted pain. The rejections, the restlessness, the fear, and the insecurity that I had buried deep within began to surface. I remember looking at my mother, silently pleading for love, only to feel the sting of rejection. I looked to my father for security, but he was lost in his search for meaning, leaving me with a sense of lack. I sought solace in lovers, filled with new hope and enthusiasm, but each time, I was met with the same rejection, the same intense pain. And it was through this pain that I began to discover myself and my true journey.
This connection with my inner self revealed to me the fragility and superficiality of relationships. They began to appear illusionary, and fleeting, especially when the specific needs tied to those relationships were either fulfilled or unmet. Our emotions are constantly shifting, and so are our needs. When people feel secure in a relationship, they start to take it for granted, manipulating it to satisfy their desires and expectations. Morality, in such cases, becomes overshadowed by our selfish needs.
Marriage, once revered as a sacred bond, now appears as an illusion, overrated, and often misunderstood. People, in their ignorance, see ending the marriage as a solution, once again searching for fulfillment outside themselves, trying to satiate their needs through external means. But all relationships, when viewed through this superficial lens, seem fragile and unfulfilling because we are unable to see the deeper meaning they hold. Frustration sets in when we focus on what we can get from a relationship rather than what we can learn and how we can evolve.
As I continued on my journey, I found myself drawn to relationships that were not confined by the typical structures of society or self-imposed expectations. These relationships are free-flowing and devoid of demands. They allow for a natural expression of love, gratitude, and affection—without limits, because they are free from societal pressure, fear, insecurity, and expectations. I began to call these “New-Age Relationships,” where individuals can learn and grow in a judgment-free environment, displaying the qualities that come from the core of their hearts.
I believe this is what our society needs—more empaths, more sensitive people, more healers. But this requires a lot of self-work and wisdom. Just imagine a society where everything flows from free will, without constraints, driven purely by love and compassion. A society where people live in communities that resonate with their level of frequency, where the alignment with one’s inner self creates a beautiful bridge to the external world. In such a world, the Universe conspires to bring everything together for us, offering life as a gift.
Perhaps I am sensing this ahead of time, but I believe the days are not far away. A shift is coming, and with it, the possibility of living in a world that truly reflects the beauty of our inner selves.
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